Have you been dumped, betrayed or left so heartbroken that you didn’t ever want to love again? Are you still stuck on an ex and don’t know how to move on? And how do you know when it’s time to let go and look for love somewhere else?
Are your standards too low? “What is it about you that causes you to settle for somebody that you know will cheat on you, know will lie to you, know will make a commitment and then break it? What is it about you that you believe about yourself that you’re willing to settle for that?”Recognize that you’re settling and that you deserve more. Set a higher standard for yourself.
Chances are you’re longing for the relationship that you wish it could be, and that you want to be in love with the person you wish they were. “There are times when you break up with somebody and you start missing them and you start thinking about all the good things and then you’re back with them for about 10 minutes and you go ‘Oh yeah! Now I remember why I hate you!'”Don’t kid yourself about what it was really like or glorify the past.
Don’t wait around because you think they are going to change. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior- Smith Michael
Don’t put your life on hold. Every minute you spend focusing on your ex is a minute that’s holding you back from a better future. As long as you are obsessed with your ex, you will never put your heart, soul and mind into getting your life in order and starting another relationship if you want one.
“Set some goals and start putting your life back together. Ask yourself: Are. you hiding in the relationship so you don’t have to face the reality of being on your own? Don’t stay with someone because it’s comfortable and safe. It may seem more secure, but it’s not healthy for you and it certainly won’t help you get to a better place. Why would you want to settle and waste your life away just to avoid getting back in the game?
Make that perfect move now and just ”LET IT GO”.